Connie Palmen

(The Netherlands, 1955) is always exploring the boundaries between fact and fiction. She shot to fame with her first novel De wetten (The Laws, 1991). Her two subsequent novels, De vriendschap (Friendship, 1995) and I.M. (1998), also became bestsellers. She went on to publish Geheel de uwe (Sincerely Yours, 2004), Lucifer (2007) and Logboek van een onbarmhartig jaar (Logbook of a Merciless Year, 2011). Palmen has written several collections of essays, such as Een kleine filosofie van de moord (A Brief Philosophy of Murder, 2004), Het geluk van de eenzaamheid (The Joy of Loneliness, 2009) and Het drama van de afhankelijkheid (The Drama of Dependence, 2017). Many of her novels are based on events in her own life; her essays are exceptionally narrative. In 2023, she published Voornamelijk vrouwen (Mainly Women), personal essays about eleven women and one man who shape their lives in idiosyncratic ways. Palmen engages with them, challenges them, and discovers differences and similarities with her own life. Her multi-award-winning work is also internationally successful and has been translated into twenty languages.

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Past events

14 September 2026 19:57-19:57 hrs

Anna Luyten in Conversation with Connie Palmen

19 January 2024 21:15-22:15 hrs Theater aan het Spui - Zaal 1

Fleeting Time

Connie Palmen and Annelies Verbeke about how writers speed up or slow down time. Moderator: Mira Feticu

20 January 2024 20:00-20:55 hrs Theater aan het Spui - Zaal 1

The Voice - In search of the character's soul

Connie Palmen, Celeste Ng and Sacha Bronwasser on the voice of their characters

16 January 2016 21:20-22:10 hrs Theater aan het Spui - Zaal 1

The Limits of Empathy

Does evil lurk in every relationship? Neel Mukherjee wrote The Lives of Others, a tale of missing bonds within a large family. Connie Palmen in Jij zegt het (Whatever You Say) gives a voice to poet Ted Hughes, whose wife, poetess Sylvia Plath, committed suicide after the limits of their love had been reached.

18 January 2014 20:00-20:20 hrs Filmhuis - Studio A

The Text of my Life: Connie Palmen

The first in a series of short talks with the audience and the writer. Which texts from world literature has Dutch writer Connie Palmen cherished as long as she lives? This most beautiful or most inspiring text can be a poem, an excerpt from a novel or a song-text. She discusses the text with the audience. Presented by Arjan Peters and Tanja Jadnanansing. In Dutch.

18 January 2014 20:55-22:00 hrs Theater aan het Spui - Zaal 1

Nothing to hide! A debate with the audience

My whole life on Facebook. Or rather, surely not? Together with host Ruben Maes we try to find out the do's and don't's. Writer and philosopher Connie Palmen, expert on primates Jan van Hooff and Maurits Martijn, a journalist and expert in the field privacy and surveillance, help us out. In Dutch.

18 January 2014 22:00-22:55 hrs Theater aan het Spui - Zaal 2

Can I put my heart at your feet?

Connie Palmen and Sabri Saad El Hamus plunge into the world of sweet voices, bliss and temptation, hosted by Fouad Laroui. And HartenJagers Daniel Cornelissen and Simon Heijmans play Hartstuk by Heiner Müller. In Dutch.

16 January 2009 20:10-21:00 hrs Theater aan het Spui - grote zaal

Connie Palmen's State of the Novel: 'Fake it till you make it'

Especially for Winternachten Dutch writer Connie Palmen wrote a State of the Novel: ‘Fake it, till you make it’. After her lecture she'll talk with Christiaan Weijts on truth and falsehood. Host: Kees ’t Hart. In Dutch.

18 January 2002 20:15-21:10 hrs Theater aan het Spui - grote zaal

The State of Passion and Love