Rage Becomes Her - Soraya Chemaly and Sunny Bergman on Women, Inequality and Anger

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American author and activist Soraya Chemaly and Dutch documentary filmmaker Sunny Bergman entered into a conversation about anger as a tool for positive change.
Chemaly wrote the international bestseller Rage Becomes Her, and we know Sunny Bergman from her provocative documentaries like Man Made, Our Colonial Hangover, and Sletvrees.
“Women are angry, and it isn’t hard to figure out why,” Chemaly says. They are underpaid, thwarted, diminished, and overworked. Assertive women are labeled bitches, while expressive women are considered too emotional. If they have an opinion, they best keep it to themselves. Chemaly not only believes that women’s anger is justified, but also that it can be a powerful tool for positive change. She calls it a force for creation, the best weapon against oppression. In early April, meanwhile, Sunny Bergman released her documentary on masculinity, Man Made, to great media fanfare. In one double interview (alongside comedian Theo Maassen) for the Volkskrant newspaper she explained why she made the film now: “At this point, I thought it was high time to address men: ‘If you don’t change, we cannot make society a better place for our children.’”

This event was conducted in English.

Event curated by Ilonka Reintjens (Writers Unlimited)
Books for sale courtesy of De Vries Van Stockum Books

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Date and time Wednesday 8 May 2019 from 20:30 to 22:00 hrs
Location Podium B - Centrale Bibliotheek Den Haag, Spui 68, 5e etage

Sunny Bergman

(Netherlands, 1972) is a documentarian, director and programmer for the VPRO network as well as a writer, activist and actor. From a young age, she has questioned what is considered normal in terms of lifestyle as well as skin colour, sex and beauty. These themes are reflected in her programs and documentaries. Her much-discussed films include Beperkt Houdbaar (Limited Shelf-Life, 2007) about current beauty ideals, and Sletvrees (Slut Fear, 2013), in which she investigates (female) sexuality and liberation. Her documentary Zwart als roet (Black as Soot, 2014), a critical look at the Dutch tradition of Sinterklaas, also provoked much debate. Her 2019 film Man Made investigates the phenomenon of masculinity -- what is it, in fact, what kind of stereotypes express it, and how do men suffer from such ideas? Bergman studied philosophy and politics in York, England, her mother's country of origin.
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Soraya Chemaly

is a writer and activist and focuses on the role of gender in culture, politics, religion and media. She is the director of the Women’s Media Center Speech Project. She has previously published in Time, The Guardian, The Nation and HuffPost. She has won various social prizes for her work.
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Mirthe Frese

is a moderator, writer and theatre professional. She created successful program series for De Balie in Amsterdam, such as De Vrijheidslezing (The Freedom Lecture), Grote Denkers (Great Thinkers) and Generatie IK (Generation ME). In 2018, she wrote and performed her first solo performance, Retourtje Polen (Return to Poland), for Theater Na de Dam. She's currently writing a historical family novel about her Jewish-Moluccan roots (expected in 2021, Nijgh & Van Ditmar publishers). Whether writing, creating theatre, hosting a debate or curating a program, her starting point is always bringing together a diversity of stories, histories and opinions.
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